Wednesday, December 3, 2008

Sticky Fingers


I hate to make phone calls. Especially to strangers. Especially to possible hostile undecided voter-type strangers. But that's exactly what I did. For an entire Saturday afternoon, I worked the phones at the Obama headquarters in downtown Greensboro basically cold-calling people that some database had dug up that said these people were not sure who they were going to vote for. It took a few minutes to get up the nerve to even pick up the phone and make that first call. I mean, I was now that person calling you, interrupting your football game, lunch, kid's nap, whatever to talk to you about the upcoming election. But I reminded myself about how important this election was, how much was on the line, how much I wanted to pitch in and make just a little difference. And even a little bit on the historic level of telling my son one day that I volunteered for this campaign. It was only a couple of weeks before Election Day and there was an electricity in the air everywhere you went. Finally, people were coming out of their eight-year self-induced coma and registering to vote, voting early in historic numbers even waiting for hours on end to do so, speaking out. And it was, in a word, electrifying. And polarizing.
There were three other things that helped me finally pick up that phone. One, my dad. His commitment for volunteering and helping people is inspiring. Two, I believe Obama is the best choice. And, three, because in the entire county of Guilford there were no more yard signs to be had. Nada. Zilch. Zero. And the waiting list had thousands of people on it. Myself included.
So the prize at the end of this day was my very own yard sign, as pictured. Leaving the Obama headquarters with my hard-earned yard sign, I was asked to leave by the back door, smuggle it down the alley, and try not to let others see me leaving with it.
I raced home, eager to plant that bad boy in my yard (I mean, somebody on my street had to counter my neighbor's sign for that other guy!)
Carolina is Obama country!
Fast-forward to November 5th. Of course, I woke up with a little dance in my step, so to speak, even after staying up most of the night watching the returns. Outside my window, I felt a smile creep over my face as I noticed my neighbor's sign for that other guy had already been removed. It was only six a.m. I smugly pictured neighbors tiptoeing under the cover of darkness, pulling up their signs, peeling the stickers off their car. My smugness was short-lived though. As I was backing out of my driveway, there it was. Or wasn't. My very own sign, gone. Not only gone, but ripped from its frame, leaving only the wire square that once supported it. Admittedly, I was a bit sad, then mad. But as I drove to work that day, I still felt warm and fuzzy pulling up to or passing a car still boasting their Obama support stickers, glancing at each other, and sharing a big, fat, smile.

Sunday, October 12, 2008

Dear Ralph

On the subject of the WTC attacks, I always feel like I have to be careful about what I say. In my opinion, I find that people have too strong of a tendency to label you as anti-American, cold-hearted, and unworthy if you voice any opinion that is not of the same vein as seen on television, conjured up by our government for poll ratings and a change in terror alert colors, publicly displayed by out of touch celebrities, and so forth. Maybe the idea that this was such a heinous act that no one can quite wrap their mind around it. Who knows. I guess the thing that bothered me the most were the dollar figures placed on so many lives via lawsuit after lawsuit (after lawsuit). One lady even filed a lawsuit seeking monetary compensation because she called in sick that day and wasn't on the Pennsylvania flight she was supposed to have taken and wanted money for her pain and suffering. Yeah, that bothered me a lot. Could I put a price on my son, my husband, or ay other family member? Would a large amount of money replace the emptiness? And in the end, would it really matter?

But on Wednesday, I was unexpectedly and pleasantly surprised. Granted, I hadn't been in my neighborhood post office in a while. Well, at least not past the self-help kiosk. But today the lobby looked fairly empty so I took my chances of going inside for some human contact. As always, Ralph was there. This guy is always in a great mood, jovial, throwing out one-liner after one-liner to the crowds. Did he miss his calling? I think not. Because of him, I think even the grouchiest of the grouches smile a little bit as they walk out the door.

But today, there was something different about Ralph. Big smile? Check. Zinging jokes? Check. Same photo of his sports car on his desk? Check. Wait a minute...his moustache was gone! Ralph without his moustache?!?! Impossible! It's like Santa without his sled. Homer without the "DOH!" Roy without Tyler.
He looked much younger though.
Of course, I had to ask him about it. But in Ralph-speak.
"New girlfriend?" I asked.
He answered, "No. I shaved it off for Sandy. Sandy Bradshaw."
I must have looked confused.
"Sandy was on one of the planes that hit the World Trade Center. She was the flight attendant from Greensboro. She used to come in here all the time."
Apparently, Ralph thought very highly of Sandy, as many people did who were undoubtedly heartbroken that day.
"I told myself that I would honor Sandy in special way this past September 11th. So I shaved my moustache off for her. She woulda gotten a kick out if it."
This day I didn't leave the post office at Friendly with a smile. I left feeling very humbled.
And finally reminded of the amazing acts of kindness, gratitude, and respect people are capable of. It's much, much more than Ralph's moustache.
But then again, maybe it isn't.

Monday, October 6, 2008

The 2008 Voting Booth Fate?

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Ptoooey!


Red delicious or golden delicious? Is there a difference? That should have been my first clue - picking the wrong apples. Or maybe the first clue should have been when I stabbed my hand when coring one of these said apples. What exactly does it mean to core an apple? I haven't the faintest clue. Does it mean just boring out the top part to remove the stem and the surrounding area or does it include all the seeds and hard stuff in the center? Not sure, I cored two apples the first way and the other two apples the second way. Bases covered, right?
So why am I fretting over apples? It all started last Wednesday when I was sent home from Will's daycare with a slip of paper requesting a feeding schedule.
"A feeding schedule?" I asked.
"Yep, every three months we need to know their feeding schedule," answered my saving-grace-in-all-things-baby-related, Tori.
So Will needs a feeding schedule. After asking Tori for some more specifics, I headed for the bookstore. They have to have a book on this right? Everything can be answered in a book. Barnes and Noble is my salvation in that department. Lo and behold, there was a book. From one of my favorite series, no doubt! The Idiot's Guide to Feeding Your Baby. I kid you not! I hid that sucker under my arm and made a beeline for the checkout. Slapping a Best of ...Calvin and Hobbes on top just for good measure.
Chapter Two. Feeding your Six to Eight Month Old. Couldn't get any better than this! There was actually a posted plan! Sweet! Rice cereal. Check. Jar of veggies. Check. Jar of fruit. Check. Formula. Check. Check. Check.
But reading a bit further, I discovered recipes for making my own baby food. Well, damn! With all this free time and a food processor that is collecting dust in my pantry.....yeah, right. But I proceeded to make baby food apples. What. A. Joke.
A process that took no less than three hours (included tending to stab wound, taking Will to the art festival in the Arboretum, and enlisting Lee to pull the apples out of the oven while he was watching the Panthers game).
All excited, thinking I'm doing this great thing for Will, I sit down next to him on his play mat, brandishing fresh apple baby food and a spoon. He was going to love these apples, dammit! At first, looking interested (or gassy), he opened him mouth just a bit. Enough for me to slide the apples in. Immediately, a horrendous grimace! Ptooey! He spits it out! You have got to be kidding me! Maybe another spoonful. I'll stir it up real good....nope. No go. Hates it. Maybe he hasn't trusted me since the "yogurt incident" last week. Back to the drawing board.
Wild guess as to what the dogs had for dinner.

Thursday, September 18, 2008

At Least Somebody Is Getting Some Sleep!

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Today's Coffee Crew

After getting very little sleep, I stumbled into Port City this morning for much needed coffee. Greeted by the shrill screams of the toddlers running pell-mell around the condiment station, I stifled a yawn. Way too much activity in this morning for me. Need. Coffee. While waiting, I looked over at the ruckus - bunch of moms and kids meeting for coffee and chat I assume, sitting around in all the comfortable, overstuffed chairs. I walk out the door with a sluggish brain-fart, blanking out on which car I was driving (red truck? black sedan?...Ahh..the black one, there it is! DUH.) And I'm wondering how those ladies in there got THAT gig? Where do I sign up so I can just chill with Will in the coffeehouse, swapping recipes or whatever, bitching about husbands and the Ikea return policy? In the parking lot were no less than six Honda Odysseys. Six. In varying hues of steel gray. (OCD kicks in just whenever it wants to, sorry.) Okay, so that does sounds rude and stereotypical but I'm on my way to work after just dropping my screaming, teething kid off in daycare, barely functioning on three hours of sleep. Again, how do I get that gig? I have yet to be granted acceptance to that mom-club, obviously way more clique-ish than I originally assumed. Not that it's necessary. Maybe I just haven't found the right fit yet.

Wednesday, September 17, 2008

Timeless!


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You may find yourself singing this song later today at the most inopportune moments! Guaranteed to make you-know-who stop crying!

Tuesday, September 16, 2008

Homecoming

Lee, A.K.A. Daddy, returns from his Goteborg and Brussels trip. I guess the late nights and even later mornings are a thing of the past for me and Will. At least until next week!


Monday, September 15, 2008

Too Many Rubber Duckies

Red, yellow, or hippopotamus. Lately, when Will is taking a bath, he wants them all. Always reaching for the red ducky, then yellow. The poor hippo is always last. Regardless, they go straight into his mouth. If he has one in hand, he certainly keeps an eye on the others, eager to lunge after them should they float too far out of grasp. And I'm watching this wondering if maybe Will has too many choices already. His obvious choice is to have them all and he is too young to know what the concept of sharing is. He does favor the red one. But for all anyone knows it could be that red rubber duckies taste better than yellow ones. And only he knows how tasty blue hippos are. Being that they are all three stamped "Made in China", I should probably be more concerned about that going is his mouth.
Then I began to think that we all have too many choices. From a consumer's point of view, do we really need two hundred types of salad dressing to choose from in the grocery store? Fifty flavors of Ben and Jerry's? What ever happened to the simple choice of eggs in their convenient small, medium, large size of the Grade A variety? Yogurt with Oreo bits, something added for funky stomachs, another with more vitamins than the next. I don't even want to get started on chip display, the soda aisle, and the household cleaning items. Give me the produce section any day. One style banana, an onion is an onion, and they haven't changed the chemical make up of lemons....yet.
Point is, aren't all these choices we have to make coincided with the constant need to be connected via cell phone, computer, ipod, whatever inevitably confusing us even more? Literally wired now to make hasty decisions and reporting it asap via email or text message yet unable to make a decision when faced with a wall of salad dressing. I opened up my pantry recently and found four bottles of unopened salad dressing in there. That doesn't include what is in the fridge on the door rack.
Sometimes all this "go-go-go" lifestyle we have created for ourselves leaves me out of breath. Today, I found myself in my car inside the automated car wash writing a thank you card to someone who took the time to knit Will a sweater. Why was there not time for me to sit down like a normal person and write it? Wasn't this in essence disrespectful to the person who hand-made this gift for my son? So we are supposed to be more connected to save time and have all these choices to make every single picky person happy and I'm not sure I have either.
Obviously, if I can't figure out preferred salad dressing I can't expect Will to choose just one rubber ducky.

Saturday, September 6, 2008

Watch Out!


Heads up to Lee, Matt, and Scott! Looks like
TS Hannah is going to follow you guys across the globe!

Goodnight Daddy!

Wherever you are! Right now, Lee is somewhere between Charlotte and Munich. We ALL hope he has an aisle seat!
TS Hannah rumbled through this morning bringing some rain and leaving behind smothering humidity. But this afternoon, when the skies cleared and the sun came out, I noticed Will intently looking out of the picture window. Curious as to what was so fascinating to him, I looked out and the sky was the most beautiful clear blue. It's been a long time since I noticed the sky like that after it's been washed crystal clear by a storm. Thanks little buddy!
Wonderful news two-fold: Marcus and Annalisa welcomed a baby boy last night! I'm so happy for them. Hoping to hear more news soon!
And finally Gregory has returned States side with her son, Daniel. This woman is absolutely amazing. Her story is inspiring, heart-wrenching, and a confirmation to that inner strength that often hides until you need it the most.

Friday, September 5, 2008

Adjö!


Tomorrow Lee leaves for Sweden and Belgium! I'll readily admit that I am quite jealous. I really enjoyed visiting Sweden and look forward to any opportunity to visit again.
I have a feeling that he may be quite surprised at how much Will grows and changes while he's gone so I'll do my best to keep him updated here.